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Your new normal …


We need to understand this basic tenet: normal actions provide normal results - to get abnormal (ideally better than normal) results - we need to climb out of the box.

Most of us feel very comfortable in staying ‘on the tracks’ - after all, we are essentially genetically programmed to ‘stick with what is safe and known’ - this is one of the underlying survival imperatives that allowed all of our ancestors to live long enough to procreate. If it weren’t for our ancestors sticking with the ‘tried and true’ - most of us wouldn’t be here.

So I get that it’s difficult to ‘jump off the tracks’ - to try new things - to experiment - to think outside the box … but hey, for me, that’s where the fun is!

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